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Anti-bullying conference lacks gay voices, activists say


Anti-bullying conference lacks gay voices, activists say

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'You don't have to like every kid in your classroom but you must honour their humanity,' expert says
BC's education minister announced Nov 13 that work is underway to strengthen the school districts' codes of conduct as he addressed an anti-bullying summit in Vancouver.

However, when pressed, neither Don McRae nor Premier Christy Clark could give specifics on how the codes would be strengthened or what role the government would play in their strengthened implementation.

"The codes are good," Clark tells Xtra. "The problem at the moment is that they're not consistently being applied across the province."

Asked what the government's role should, therefore, be, Clark says, "That's what we're doing today," pointing to the new Erase Bullying program and its mandate to train 15,000 educators across the province.

"Right now they're hit-and-miss around the district," McRae says, referring to the mandatory conduct codes introduced by the BC Liberals five years ago.

Each district has its own language, McRae tells Xtra. The government is looking for consistency, he says.

Asked if that means the language of the codes will change, McRae says no.

The strengthening will focus more on gender and racial issues, he says, as well as on establishing protocol to ensure districts have a clear set of actions to follow if bullying takes place.

"It's making sure we're giving some kind of direction as to what kinds of codes of conduct" exist, he says. It's offering a template to ensure issues are addressed and codes are consistently applied, rather than telling districts "here's the exact wordage."

Asked if sexual orientation will be specifically addressed, McRae says no.

"We're not targeting one specific" group, he says; the government wants schools to be safe for everybody.

Though if students feel issues are not being addressed, McRae says, he wants to hear their concerns.

Jennifer Yoon is concerned.

The Vancouver District Students' Council president says the council sent Clark a letter in February saying they wanted lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans students protected. Nothing happened.

At the summit, Yoon publicly told Clark that queer students cannot simply be brought under a general umbrella of bullying initiatives.

"It's different," she says. "The statistics speak for themselves. LGBT students are more likely to commit suicide. There is a need for special protection.

"The mood is still not LGBT-friendly in our schools sometimes," she adds. "Sometimes I don't think our voices are being heard. It's frustrating."

Schools need to foster a culture of safety that addresses homophobia, says David Butler, who sits on the BC Teachers' Federation social justice committee.

Butler told the anti-bullying summit that he recently spoke to a school principal who asked how to field objections from parents who might be uncomfortable with gay books in the classroom.

Butler asked if a parent uncomfortable with books about interracial couples would be given the time of day. "Why are we honouring homophobia?" he asks.

He says teachers need to be clear about the values of the school system. "If teachers aren't clear, students won't be."

How will gay-friendly values be incorporated into general school values if they are not raised at events such as the anti-bullying summit, ask some queer groups excluded from the invitation-only event.

Out in Schools (OIS), which combats homophobia by screening gay films and leading discussions in classrooms around the Lower Mainland, sent Clark a letter asking to participate in the anti-bullying summit.

Several groups presented their anti-bullying approaches to the summit.

Despite discussion with the government leading up to the summit, the gay group's invitation to participate arrived only two days before the event, on the long weekend, says Drew Dennis, executive director of OIS's parent organization, Out on Screen.

"It's a little bit disappointing we weren't invited from the get-go," Dennis says. "I do feel like it's a bit of a miss. It's an anti-bullying program."

Ryan Clayton, co-coordinator of the Purple Letter Campaign, which saw Education Minister George Abbott receive hundreds of letters last year calling for anti-homophobia policy in schools, followed the conference on Twitter.

He's not surprised no queer groups were in attendance at the summit. He says it seems that, while other speakers try to add homophobia to the discussion, Clark tries to avoid it.

Overall the summit seemed more focused on reacting to bullying rather than preventing it, Clayton says. "It's very reactive and almost trying to ignore the underlying causes."

"What they've got is exactly what they need in the reaction piece," he adds, acknowledging some valuable discussion took place at the summit.

Clark says the summit was intended to find ways to make schools safer places, to create cultures where young people know it's their job to intervene in bullying situations rather than be bystanders, and to create schools where compassion is the norm.

That was the message that education, conflict and bullying expert Barbara Coloroso brought to the summit.

"You don't have to like every kid in your classroom, but you must honour their humanity," Coloroso told the summit.

"Bullying — it's about utter contempt for another human being," she says. It's about turning a person into an it, which then allows the bully to act without compassion.

"This is a learned behaviour," she notes. "Your children need to see you standing up for your values against injustice, even when it's uncomfortable." Then they'll be more likely to stand up for underdogs themselves, despite the potential cost.

She says the lack of compassion and empathy underlying bullying also underlies hate crimes and genocide. She stresses that the route to bullying and beyond can include unquestioning obedience to authority, the routinization of cruelty and demonizing another human being.

"Intolerance, bigotry and hatred cloaked in the garb of religion is still intolerance, bigotry and hatred," she adds.

The conference ended with students from throughout the province addressing issues from their individual areas, including school safety, teen suicides and murders.

"Bullying needs to be made not cool," Timberline Secondary's Donovan Coates told the summit.

Teachers need to lead, said another student, pointing as an example to a teacher in his school who made a "That's so gay"-free zone.

Clark thanked them all for their involvement.

"This doesn't stop here," she says.

"There is an appetite for the kinds of programs we're talking about," she says. "We need to take advantage of that as activists who care deeply about bullying and what it means for kids.

"This has got to be sustainable," she says. "We have a moment, a moment in time where we can make a difference."

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Law needs to become serious
Homophobes and bullies need to be fined 10,000 US dollars if they commit crime against gays. All gay friendly organisations and gay friendly celebrities should come forward and ensure that the fined amount is paid. Homophobes and bullies feel that they can get away with their crimes. Those who commit crime against gays go on to commit crimes against heterosexuals too. In case of child bullies, their parents must be fined. This is because homophobic parents teach their children to hate. All parents are responsible for their child's behaviour. Crime against gays is a loophole in the society that needs to be corrected.
Lost in trans-lation?
Good article, with one caveat: I was disappointed to notice what I can only describe as "trans erasure."

The headline mentions "gay voices" and "activists" and initial paragraphs refer to "sexual orientation" leaving issues facing trans youth unaddressed.

"Gay" isn't a synonym for "LGBT" and "sexual orientation" isn't synonymous with "gender identity."

If the old terms aren't inclusive, it's incumbent upon us all to adopt more inclusive terms. I'm not sure what applies here - "queer"? "Genderqueer"? Certainly "LGBT" is accurate, and nice and short - only one more letter than the word that was used in the headline - "gay."

It's not that hard to adapt one's language. A few years ago when I met a transgender person for the first time, I would have described them as "born female." Now I'd say "assigned female at birth."

A community so often oppressed, erased, maligned and silenced needs to be aware of these nuances. I believe that language influences thought. It certainly expresses thought and signals acceptance, lack of acceptance or simple neglect.

Let's welcome everyone who fits under the rainbow umbrella, and acknowledge their presence and essential humanity."
LgBTQ Curriculm Inclusion
I think BC needs to speak to the Premier and Education Minister in Newfoundland and Labrador.
The facts are simple...when schools do not include LGBTQ curriculum the ONLY message communicated is that we are NOT worthy enough to be mentioned. Why not beat up the fag or dyke our teachers do not discuss them so they must be evil.....silence and invisibility go hand in hand with helplessness....
Kids spend 14 years in school and may Never learn about 10% of the population. It's a major Human Rights violation and the reason is religious extremists...they are powerful and have money and are keeping LGBTQ curriculum out of the classrooms....
In NL We are leading the way in LGBT education because our government has acknowledged the fact that out youth are not safe, nor are they respected in their schools and communities.
Egale Canada have just completed training every principal, vice principal and guidance counsellor in the province and will continue in the new year to train every teacher. When training is completed we will begin to implement LBGTQ curriculum from K-12
It's from the top down our ministry has made it very clear...our LGBTQ students Will Be included in school curriculum and if teachers have a problem with that then they should find another job! The teachers who say they have a right to their religious beliefs are correct they do But Not in our classrooms! they are required under the law to ensure the safety of all including our LGBTQ students. They ar also required to teach the Curriculm the Dept of Education mandates....
It's the only way to do from the top down and be prepared to take on religious extremists who hide behind the bible to justify their hatred toward gay people....sadly our entire society is paying the price.....
My advice to LGBTQ students and parents who do not see LGBTQ policy or curriculum hire a lawyer and begin a court case...you are protected under the CCRF and the Human Rights Code...
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